What’s it take to be a PSO?
More than most people realize…. here are some of the needed skills that excellent phone sex operators tend to have:
Dependability
Mental clarity
Creative thinking
Self-motivation
Excellent conversational skills
The ability to listen closely
Strong gut instincts
Confidence
The ability to think fast and change the direction of any conversation
Customer Service skills
Interest in psychology or a deep understanding of people
A healthy attitude toward others
The ability to handle a difficult personality
The ability to maintain control over the call
An entertaining and engaging personality
Research skills
Storytelling ability
Great use of language
Understanding pitch and tone of voice
Knowing various communications styles
Thick skin
Self-control and emotional regulation
Analytical thinking
Sales experience
A great sense of humor
Respect for others
A hard-working attitude where you can challenge yourself
Note-taking skills and a good memory
Lots of available time
Non-Judgment for other people
An understanding of mental issues
A little class and trash to your personality
A very liberal mind
Some basic acting ability
A mind that can daydream and visualize well
Meticulous with the little details
Computer skills
Emotionally intelligent
A strong self-esteem
The ability to flirt relentlessly
The ability to keep a conversation going
An enjoyment of men/people
A never give up attitude
The ability to set goals
Problem-solving skills
This list just flowed from my mind, but there are so many more things! Sometimes we are counselors, girlfriends, even just friends from the client’s point of view. It’s a lot more than just random sex words or moaning. Sometimes we are the only bright spot in a client’s day. Phone sex ladies who are excellent operators are often “lifers” in this industry. And that’s great!